Taking a Break from All Your Worries

Written on January 24, 2009 by Tom Stine



Creative Commons License credit:
Abi Skipp
“Making your way in the world today takes everything you’ve got.
Taking a break from all your worries, sure would help a lot.
Wouldn’t you like to get away?”

Funny the thoughts that will rattle through one’s head, completely unbidden. I awoke this morning and kept hearing the Cheers theme song playing in my mind. I could see Norm sitting on his bar stool quipping one-liners that never failed to make me laugh. One of my favorites:

Woody: How’s life treating you Mr. Peterson?

Norm: Like I just ran over its dog.

If you are asking, “what does this silliness have to do with spirituality and awakening?” then I’m afraid I haven’t got a good answer. In a certain sense I’m not trying to make a pithy comment on spiritual awakening. But I will say one thing: all moments of genuine awakening are in fact the only break you will ever get from all your worries. Awakening is the only answer.

If awakening is the only answer, then what does this mean for all the programs, courses, techniques, etc., that are supposed to help free us from all our worries? What about things like the Sedona Method that I have promoted right here on this website? Don’t they work, too?

Well, in truth, they really are only a step in the right direction. All these programs, courses, techniques, etc., get us to start questioning all of our assumptions about life, so they have a place and often can prove helpful. But in the end, like everything else in this world, they prove to be unsatisfactory.

In the end, to find true relief for what ails us, we might find ourselves, if we are lucky, stuck. The old ways don’t seem to work any more. The old techniques have us feeling lost. We have no idea what to do. And so, out of desperation, we do the only thing we can do: we sit, we reflect, we look within, and we begin to question.

We do what Nisargadatta Maharaj did. We do what Adyashanti did. We do what Ramana Maharshi did. We question. We investigate. We wonder if all of our old assumptions are true. Ramana questioned one assumption: death. Nisargadatta was told by his guru, “You are the supreme ultimate reality. Now go discover that for yourself.” So he sat and sat and sat until he saw through everything that said otherwise.

So simple. So utterly simple. Sit. Question. Let the truth be revealed to you as you question that which is false. And here’s a little hint: no thought, no belief is true! Now go find that out for yourself. And when you do, you will take a permanent break from all your worries.

Namaste.


Comments are closed at this time.

Comments

Master YodaNo Gravatar  said
on January 24th, 2009 at 3:50 pm


True.

Albert | UrbanMonk.NetNo Gravatar  said
on January 24th, 2009 at 5:19 pm


Welcome back Tommy! We missed you :D

PsiplexNo Gravatar  said
on January 24th, 2009 at 8:49 pm


Great post Tom! It seems like for each individual, even those very close in nature, relations and direction, there are different approaches. In this case, it is a letting go of a purpose or the ‘I’Me’ trying to get someplace. Grace takes us to where we can reveal what is under the surface, the forgotten part of our true nature, the ‘I Am’.

Grace allows a maturing into awakening that ‘I’ have nothing to do with, just trust it t be so and stop resisting, doing or striving for and end result.

Just posted a new Psiplex video on YouTube , a tribute to Mooji’s book ‘Before I AM’ that has helped a lot. The link is:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yj98ryoCBz0

A PDF version of it can be viewed at: http://issuu.com/psibase/docs/lifeseries3

Just saying thanks to Mooji and team for some great pointers coming at the perfect time.

One Love

nickNo Gravatar  said
on January 25th, 2009 at 6:40 am


no thought, no belief is true! Awesome, so simple but so hard to practice.

DavidyaNo Gravatar  said
on January 26th, 2009 at 2:18 am


Tom comes back with quotes from Cheers?
Don’t worry, be happy. No Worries. What me worry?
Doesn’t sound like Tom is.
Feelin’ Groovy? ;-)

MasterzanNo Gravatar  said
on January 26th, 2009 at 4:34 am


Nice article – well done!!

I read somewhere a quote that just stuck for some reason:

“dont take yourself so seriously, no one else does”

I think sometimes on our journeys we forget to have fun, to actually just stop being so intense for a minute and sit back and enjoy the ride!

padmajaNo Gravatar  said
on January 27th, 2009 at 10:57 pm


Hi
nice post,, taking a break from all the worries in this materialist world is little tough, as in the present stressful life our brain are subconsciously programmed to be worried about some or the other things all the time , they may either be a matter of concern or be out of our area of concern. To learn the art of relaxing is little tough but not impossible.
Thanks
Padmaja
http://www.p2w2.com/padmajavenkata/

Sharon WilsonNo Gravatar  said
on February 2nd, 2009 at 10:12 pm


Basic fact of life is that we will always have worries. However we can turn worrying in a positive direction when we develop a keen sense of self-awareness; when we look within ourselves to search for answers and solutions which consequently results in feelings of control, empowerment and eventually freedom from worry.

Tom StineNo Gravatar  said
on February 9th, 2009 at 1:16 pm


@Sharon I don’t know if I agree that we always have worries. We may experience worry, but does that mean it is a given? I really prefer to look at it from the perspective of the person who is worrying, not the worry itself. Find out who is worrying, and you will see there never was worry.

Best of Tom Stine


Recent Articles


Tags

Subscribe to Articles

  Get Articles by Email:


Recommended Books


Guru Quotes

The you that you think of as you (and that thinks of you as you, and so on) is not you, it’s just the character that the underlying truth of you is dreaming into brief existence. Enlightenment isn’t in the character, it’s in the underlying truth. Now, there’s nothing wrong with being a dream character, of course, unless it’s your goal to wake up, in which case the dream character must be ruthlessly annihilated. If your desire is to experience transcendental bliss or supreme love or altered states of consciousness or awakened kundalini, or to quality for heaven, or to liberate all sentient beings, or simply to become the best dang person you can be, then rejoice!, you’re in the right place: the dream state, the dualistic universe. However, if your interest is to cut the crap and figure out what’s true, then you’re in the wrong place and you’ve got a very messy fight ahead and there’s no point in pretending otherwise.

But beauty, real beauty, ends where intellectual expression begins. Intellect is in itself a mode of exaggeration, and destroys the harmony of a face. The moment one sits down to think, one becomes all nose, or all forehead, or something horrid. Look at the successful men in any of the learned professions. How perfectly hideous they are! Except, of course, in the Church. But then in the Church they don’t think. A bishop keeps on saying at the age of eighty what he was told to say when he was a boy of eighteen, and as a natural consequence he always looks absolutely delightful.

Intelligent practice always deals with just one thing: the fear at the base of human existence, the fear that I am not. And of course I am not, but the last thing I want to know is that.

Q: Since all is pre-ordained, is our self-realization also pre-ordained? Or are we free there at least?

A: Destiny refers only to name and shape. Since you are neither body nor mind, destiny has no control over you. You are completely free. The cup is conditioned by its shape, material, use and so on. But the space within the cup is free. It happens to be in the cup only when viewed in connection with the cup. Otherwise, it is just space. As long as there is a body, you appear to be embodied. Without the body you are not disembodied — you just are.

So the most important thing to realize is this: Your life has an inner purpose and an outer purpose. Inner purpose concerns Being and is primary. Outer purpose concerns doing and is secondary…. Your inner purpose is to awaken. It is as simple as that. You share that purpose with every other person on the planet – because it is the purpose of humanity. Your inner purpose is an essential part of the purpose of the whole, the universe and its emerging intelligence.


Buddhism stands unique in the history of human thought in denying the existence of a Soul, Self or Atman. According to the teachings of the Buddha, the idea of self is an imaginary, false belief which has no corresponding reality, and it produces harmful thoughts of ‘me’ and ‘mine’, selfish desire, craving, attachment, hatred, ill-will, conceit, pride, egoism, and other defilements, impurities and problems. It is the source of all troubles in the world from personal conflicts to wars between nations. In short, to this false view can be traced all the evil in the world.


Twittering...

  • Same is true of mind, "I", self, consciousness, etc. :-) || RT @Kalieezchild RT @Jyakunen: you will never find an "ego" -- absurd concept. 2 weeks ago
  • RT @Takuin If someone is hateful to you, or if you have been insulted, you may feel some kind of pain. But who, exactly, is being hurt? 2010-08-05
  • Spirituality: 6.7 billion caterpillars insisting they know what it's like to be a butterfly. Why not just become a butterfly and find out? 2010-07-27
  • If everything you thought was true turns out to be nothing but smoke and mirrors, what then? 2010-07-25
  • RT @Takuin What if you woke up tomorrow and the search was gone? If nothing were left, what would you do? || Eat ice cream. Duh. :-) 2010-07-25
  • RT @AkebonoJishi Objective fact is just a notion -- like "Emptiness." || Beautiful, isn't it? 2010-07-23
  • RT @Takuin packing it in @ 3250 meters. || Very cool! I can't wait to see it next summer. Definitely coming to Japan. No climbing, tho. :-) 2010-07-16
  • Why is everyone so intent on silencing the mind? Just leave the damn thing alone and it shuts up all by itself! Make some tea, sit, and rest 2010-07-16
  • RT @noah8423 Either Truth is awake in you, or not. ... the thinking must stop to make room for that light. || Why MUST thinking stop? 2010-07-16
  • So many people know. Yet how many know that they don't know? ☺ 2010-07-14
  • More updates...